Thursday, December 15, 2011

How to Become More Sexy and Attractive

There is nothing more sexy and attractive to others than confidence.  Something about a person that is sure of himself/herself is irresistible to people.  As you know, your level of confidence changes from time to time. Sometimes it’s higher than normal.  Sometimes it’s lower than normal.  Most people do not have the “habit” of seeing value in situations that cause emotional pain. However, if you want to increase your confidence – and elevate it to new levels – you must become equipped with the ability to see “value” in all situations (especially the bad ones).  So it is a matter of asking yourself, How can I learn from this experience? and How can this situation make me a better person?  Some people allow situations to tear away their confidence for months or years.  So when you are not feeling your best, think of  all the reasons why you are thankful.  Remember times when you felt great about yourself.  Sit in meditation and just let go.


Why am I bringing this up on a Floatation blog?  Earlier this week I had made a sale; along with it, a huge commission.  Yesterday the person backed out of the deal which left me second guessing myself on the things that I could have done differently.  I beat myself up pretty good for a few hours.  As is my habit, I went into the float tank after work and just let go.  I was able to visualize times I was at my best and the recent successful sales that I have made and the upcoming sales that I have in the pipeline.  I let those feelings wash over me and let go.  Knowing that I have let my intentions known to the Universe gave me a sense of peace.  I have faith that my goals will come true with the proper focus and dedication.  Sometimes challenges are what assists people to remain focused upon what is really important.  For me, what really is important is knowing that abundance is all around us.  There is no reason to be angry or afraid.  Be confident.  Have faith.  Believe in yourself and the Universe.

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